Guilt is not Love
You start looking away, and with time you forget them
One of the most bizarre challenges in life arises when adults engage in self-destructive behavior to manipulate you and those around them.
This can be one of the most draining experiences to endure.
Over time, they make you love them less and less. They create an environment where you need to shield yourself from their drama, resulting in them losing your affection and care.
You begin to distance yourself, and over time, you forget them.
When facing such a situation, it's crucial to remind yourself that you are not responsible for someone else's emotional state and well-being. You must prioritize your mental health and protect yourself from these toxic relationships.
Please do not fall into the trap of feeling guilty or experiencing emotional turmoil when distancing yourself from these individuals.
They excel at drawing your attention back to them. Resist the urge to look back; they will be watching you closely, waiting for a moment of connection. Once they catch your eye, they may succeed in making you feel guilty for having stopped caring.
Remember one crucial rule in life: those who genuinely love you want you to be happy. For those who seek to harm you, their 'love' is akin to a drug - it can be addictive but ultimately harmful.
Guilt is not love.
Dana Obeid